Real Talk.
Real Friendship.
Life Abroad.
Ep. 1 - Meet Your Favorite Exes (Expats).
Welcome to our first episode! We’re best friends from the US who met in college 13 years ago. Victoria hopped on a plane from Boston to Barcelona in 2020, and Hope followed 4 years later. In this episode, we share a little about ourselves, the different paths that brought us abroad, and why we started a podcast about what it really means to start over in a new country.
Ep. 2 - So you think you want to move?
Thinking about moving abroad? Whether it's for adventure, career opportunities, or just escaping where you are, making the leap is a huge decision. In this episode, we break down the emotional and practical sides of relocating, the challenges, and how to know if it’s right for you. We share our experiences of moving at different stages of life, the misconceptions we had, and the realities we faced in Barcelona. Plus, we dive into the joys and struggles of building a new community.
Ep. 3 - My shit needs to get there.
Packing up your life and moving abroad is exciting yet overwhelming. In this episode, we tackle the chaos of deciding what to take, sell, or leave behind. Google Sheets Girlies, grab your laptop and wine! From shipping vs. storage to packing hacks, we’ve got you covered. Moving is a team sport—we’ll talk about how friends help and how social media can set you up in a new country before you even board the plane. Oh, and pet owners, we’ve got tips and stories for you too!
Ep. 4 - The International Friendship Playbook
Making friends as an expat is like speed dating—except you're swapping romance for tips on where to buy a couch. Some connections fade after one coffee; others lead to dancing at each other’s weddings.
Maintaining those friendships across time zones? That’s an extreme sport. Communication gets tricky, and even the best girls’ trips can’t fully ease the sting of constant goodbyes.
Still, the upside is huge: a global crew that feels like home, group chats that never sleep, and a couch waiting for you in every corner of the world.
Book mentioned - Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make--and Keep--Friends
Ep. 5 - What do I come back for?
Going back home after moving abroad isn’t always as simple as booking a flight. From juggling family expectations to squeezing in time with friends (all while trying to enjoy your trip), visiting home can be an emotional, financial, and logistical challenge.
In this episode, we unpack the pressures of returning home—who gets priority, what events you feel obligated to attend, and whether you “owe” more visits because you left. We also dive into the trade-offs of using vacation time to go home versus exploring new places and how to set boundaries to make visits more enjoyable and less exhausting.
If you’ve ever struggled with homecoming guilt or felt torn between two places, this one’s for you.
Ep. 6 - Where to Next?
Ever wonder how to choose the right country to live in? It’s not just about picking somewhere "cool" — there’s a lot more to consider when making a big move abroad! In this episode, we dive into the how-to of picking the perfect place, from finances and language barriers to figuring out how often you’ll want to fly back home.
We’ll chat about the realities of travel vs. living somewhere long-term, and why some cities (even if they’re dreamy) just might not be worth the price tag. We also discuss important things to consider, like whether you want to live in the suburbs, a city, or rural areas, and how to test out the vibe of a place—from public transport to language barriers and getting lost in a new neighborhood. Ready to start your own adventure? Tune in to get all the advice you need before you pack your bags!
Ep. 7 - What do you mean my apartment doesn’t have a fridge?
Moving to Barcelona and realizing unfurnished means literally four walls and a prayer. In this episode, we take you behind the scenes of our chaotic journeys to find our apartments abroad—complete with mystery rental contracts and language fails.We navigate second-hand shopping like it’s a scavenger hunt, debate whether a couch is a luxury or a necessity, and slowly unravel the complicated and beautiful world of European rental life. It’s part travel diary and part therapy session.
Ep. 8 - Interview Series Part 1 - Clocking In, Abroad
Welcome to part one of our two-part interview series!
This week, Hope channels her inner journalist and puts Victoria in the hot seat to talk all things working abroad. From Corporate America to Café Culture, we unpack what it’s really like to live and work in Spain—and how it shapes everything from career goals to daily routines. Spoiler: slower doesn’t mean slacking.
If you've ever wondered what it’s like to quit the grind and take your laptop to Europe—this one’s for you.
Coming soon - Ep. 9 - Interview Series Part 2 - Parenting Abroad
We’re flipping the script! In this second half of our two-part series, Victoria interviews Hope about what it’s like to raise kids in a new country. From navigating unfamiliar school systems to rethinking parenting norms, we explore how living abroad has shifted her understanding of family life, support networks, and what kids really need.
It’s not just about learning how things work—it’s about seeing the differences, honoring them, and figuring out what works for your family. Honest, reflective, and full of those “aha” moments, this episode is for anyone trying to parent far from home.